– Holding on to that hatred is like drinking poison and hope it will affect the other person.
– Don’t waste your time trying to manipulate them.
This is a question most ladies ponder on. How to get their ex to miss them after breakup. You feel unhappy and broken after your relationship was over but you still want them to miss you especially if you are trying to get back together and give the relationship a second chance. The feeling is just to pay them back, like a revenge.
However, you need to be honest about why you want your ex to miss you. Why do you want your x to miss you? If your reason is for revenge then why are you bothering yourself. They left you and if you don’t intend to try and have a further relationship with them, then forget them. Don’t waste your time trying to manipulate them.
Learn to move on
You can be angry at your ex because they hurt you. And you may want to strike back if you’re angry and hurt the person who hurt you so much. People can even make drastic change with their body or appearance and show themself to their ex meaning ‘I told you so’. Honestly, will hurting your ex make your life better? The answer is simply ‘NO’ but it will make you a uglier person for a while. If you spend hours daily thinking about how to get revenge on someone, then that consumes you and you stop spending time enjoying your own life and being happy. Holding on to that hatred is like drinking poison and hope it will affect the other person.
If your honest answer to get your ex to miss you is revenge then stop it and get a life. However, if your reason is to be friends in the future then it normal to want them to miss you. It advisable to observe a long period of silence and no contact with your ex after a breakup. The purpose of the silent period is for you to get yourself together. It for you not for them. You have the time for new reality, you are single now and it absolutely normal.
If you still want yur ex back after thinking about it then you all the things you engaged yourself with is what ill make your ex miss you instead of stalking them. If you are happier and healthier, you become more attractive to everyone including your ex and new romantic partners.